What do Jewish girls like/love in a Man?

Whether you’re looking for the girl of your dreams or you’ve already zeroed in on that special someone, take heart. You don’t have to be a super suave Cassanova to get her to notice you. They say women are impossible to understand, but you actually need to do very little to please them.

Jewish girls, in particular, were brought up in a culture where they are treated as virtual equals with the opposite sex. In fact, in Jewish families, it’s the mother who decides if blessing will be given to a marriage, and how an inheritance will be made, among other things. So beware: don’t treat her like she’s “just a little girl”. Don’t be too pushy, either. Judaism forbids sexual contact before marriage. While not everybody strictly observes this, try to be on the safe side.

American Jews place a high degree of importance in academic excellence. You’ll notice that most Jewish teens try to excel in school, and adults in their chosen careers. They are also financially more successful than the average American. This might intimidate you and make you give it up completely. However, it’s really not a game of showing who’s better. This is the 21st century, and men need not always be the top dog. She’ll like you just the same if you’re nice and you can carry light as well as deep conversations with her.

Be yourself. That advice has been thrown around so much it might come across as passé, but it’s quite useful. Imagine having her like you for all the wrong reasons, and then finding out afterwards that you aren’t really what you say you are. And isn’t it so much simpler to be able to spontaneously tell her stuff because they’re true? The key here is confidence. If you like who you are then you should have no trouble defending yourself with anyone. Besides, you don’t always have to have the same ideas and interests as the girl you’d like to meet. Sometimes being different can have its advantages. You’ll be able to learn a lot from each other, and that opportunity doesn’t exist if you’re just each other’s clone.

That’s it. Find her and show how a nice young man you are. Get to know this person. Because if there’s something that girls really like, it’s conversation. If you’re serious enough to truly get to know her, you have one foot in right there.