I want to find a Jewish boyfriend?

Jews have a widespread appeal which is hard to fathom. It is most evident in online dating sites which were created to cater to an exclusively Jewish singles crowd, but to date has a growing number of non-Jewish members. Surprising? Experts have given some opinions.

American Jews feel right at home here in the US. Their beliefs blend well with the dominant culture. On average, Jews are more affluent than the average American family, and also better educated than most. These perhaps, along with the Jewish mystique, have made them quite popular with non-Jewish singles. If you’re one of the many looking for a Jewish boyfriend, consider yourself lucky as the search has become easier than ever before.

New York, Miami and LA are the hotspots for Jewish singles. If you live in these areas, there’s a good chance you’ll into them while walking around town. There are also Jewish parties you can attend that are usually thrown around the more festive Jewish holidays. If you have Jewish friends, ask them to keep you updated if they know any upcoming event.

You can also sign up for membership in some of the biggest online dating websites. They sponsor singles parties from time to time. It’s also a great opportunities to scout eligible bachelors through their profiles. See who’s hot and send them a message or invite them to chat. This way you’ll be able to screen those you like before setting up a date with them. The best thing about it is that there are hundreds of thousand of singles to choose from.

However, if you’re a busy professional who doesn’t really have time to go online and flirt, you can consider the matchmaker alternative. It’s been a time-honored tradition in Jewish society to hire a matchmaker for singles who feel that they need to give love a helping hand. A matchmaker collects profiles of interested singles and screens them thoroughly through interviews. She then takes care of matching a man and a woman for compatibility, based on their profiles. She sets a date and if both parties agree, a meeting will take place. No pressure here, though. In Jewish law, a person cannot be forced to marry (or date) someone he or she doesn’t like.

Choose the method that’s best for you, and the rest is pure destiny.